Spread the Love

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Today is Valentine’s day and the whole world celebrates.  This occasions is not just for couple only.  It is for all of us who because we all do have love ones.  We can celebrate it with the family, friends, relatives, love one and special someone.  As the world needs love, let us spread the love to all the people in the world.  Besides we are all brothers and sisters in the eyes of God.  And since God is the ultimate lover, let see God in everyone for the love will be spread out.  Share the love and always be happy.

Happy Valentines day everyone! 

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One-sided love

I have heard different love story from friends and some people I know.  There are happy and sad stories.  And also heard different conflicts in a relationship.  Also, some friends seek for an advises from me that makes me feel like an expert.  I do love when they come and seek for advises from me because I do get an idea of what kind of the relationship they are having.  At some point give me an idea to do if I was in the same situation like they have.

One story that interest me the most is the one-sided love.  It is the kind of love that a friend is going through right now.  It is the kind of love that only her who values and give importance of their relationship.  Sad to say, the ma does not value her at all and did not see her presence and the time she devoted for him.  Seeing her suffering from the kind of relationship she has right now makes me sad.  Though I see her smiling, I know deep inside her she is crying.  As a friend I am trying to cheer her up and makes her feel she is important.  Though I was not able to help her 100%, I hope that the pain she has right now will fade and that she can finally move on.  It is not easy I know but I think it is important to think of ourselves sometimes and make ourselves important too.


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Saturday 9 #9: Looking for Love

1. When you were single, or if you are single, what’s the best way to look for love?
–  the best way to look for love is through prayers.  pray to God to give me the best man who will give me the love and value the love.
2. Have you ever cruised online personals, even if you’re married for fun? What was the reason, or if you haven’t, why not?
–  mmmmmmmmm
3. Have you ever put up an online personal? If so, how was your experience?
–  not so good experience
4. Have you ever answered an online personal? If so, how did it turn out?
–   turn out to be a nightmare
5. Have you ever had a good experience with online dating? If not, have you had a friend/family member have a good experience? Tell us about it!
–  i got bad experience.  I have a friend who is now happily married and I am happy for them.
6. Have you ever had a horrible experience with online dating? If not, someone else?
–  yes.
7. Back in 2004, a friend threw her husband out because she found out that he was having cyber affairs/sex with 2 women in states FAR away from them. Do you think that cybersex is actually cheating?
–  any form of sexual communication is cheating.
8. Do you have any suggestions for someone as to how to stay safe using a dating service?
–  i think i would suggest to be careful and cautious.
9. I’ve heard someone say, “There’s Match.com and then there’s everyone else.” Is this true in your experience or someone you know?

– haven’t been in that site yet.

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How did it start?

It started when I was still in high school.  Every time I get bored from listening to my teacher, I write every thing that comes into my mind.   Mostly I write about how boring the teacher is, and the class.  Once my teacher caught me not listening.  She came near to me and asked me what I am doing.  I said, ” I was writing something because I am bored”.  That is how frank I am.  I am glad that my teacher did not get mad.  She just turned around and continues the class.  The following day, our school guidance counselor calls me and said to meet her in the office.  Oh well, I got what I deserved.lol

From then on I started to write in my leisure time.  When I see something new to me I write something about it but in a poem way.  I have made several poems back then.  Sad to say I cannot locate it anymore because I just put it somewhere. sigh!  My passion to write develops when I was in college because plenty of topics to write about.  I feel relieved after writing what I’ve wanted to say. As you can see I am still writing till now and will be doing it for longer time.

My first love is to write because I felt the passion of doing it.  And this how it is started.

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Waiting in Vain

I grew up with the thought from my late mother that ‘ Patience is a Virtue’.  That there is time for everything and time will come that all that we wanted and prayed for will be given to us.  That is how I remembered my late dear mother.  I sometimes lost patience but thinking about my mother I tried to strengthen it as far as I could. 

When it comes to patience, it will be measured when we are in love.  The love for someone special.  Someone that brings happiness and smiles on our faces aside from our family.  It needs a lot of patience especially if that someone whom we love is far away from us.  Various reasons why they are far away.  Promises are being made and sweared.  Because of the love and what we feel to them someone, we opted to wait at them to come.  That is what I am doing right now and I am pretty sure other girls do the same as well.  Nothing wrong with that because we are matured enough to think and decide what we wanted in our life.  If you think that it is worth the wait, go on and hold on for happiness will be given to you.  I remembered a friend once uttered, ‘if you want it claim it’.  These words make me and her holding on and praying for.

With all the patience and sacrifices of waiting, I hope and pray that we are not waiting in vain.  God bless us all!


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